I created a Summer job chart for my kids. I absolutely believe in teaching my kids how to work. I refuse to do all the housework myself. We have a big family and we all pitch in.
Sometimes it can get ugly trying to get my kids (Josh--oh that boy! I do love him, but he struggles the most) to help me out. If there is a clear plan, with guidelines, timelines and rewards, then the kids work a lot more cheerfully with less yelling from mom.
The details
Monday-Thursday Jobs:
Each child has to do his/her room and bed, practice piano and read 30 minutes. In addition to that, they each have 3 more jobs.
Josh: 1-Clear dishes and wipe off counter
2-Vacuum the family room
3-Take out garbages
Jake: 1-Empty the dishwasher
2-Pick up family room
3-Wipe down the counters, sinks, faucets, and toilet seat of the kids' bathroom
Lucy: 1-Empty the silverware and vacuum the kitchen
2-Pick up office and living room
3-Wipe down counter, sink, faucet and toilet seat in guest bathroom
Sam: 1-Make bed
2-Pick up toys
3-Put shoes away in mudroom
Sam loves to be involved so I tried to think of simple jobs that he could do.
IF they get all their jobs done by noon Monday-Thursday then we have "Fun Friday". They get the day off. No jobs and they can participate in an activity that we choose: A movie, out to lunch, Jump On It, etc.
If they miss a day (or miss the noon deadline), then they have to make up their jobs on Friday. If they can do it before noon, then they can still participate in the activity.
(I picked the noon time because of various activities, swim, dance, etc. that the kids have on some mornings--I wanted to make sure that each child has plenty of time to get it all done.)
On Saturday the kids don't have to do piano or reading. They do their other 4 jobs PLUS they rotate through 2 deep cleaning jobs.
This week Josh had to 1-dust downstairs
2-mop the kitchen floor.
Jake had to 1-dust upstairs
2-vacuum upstairs.
Lucy had to 1-vacuum the living room and stairs
2-clean the mirrors and inside the toilets.
Next week they will rotate these 2 jobs.
This is what the charts look like after one week.
If they fill their charts up completely for 4 weeks then they get a bonus: Either $20.00 or a "free day."
The free day was Josh's idea. It consists of no jobs PLUS being able to play as much video games as they want for an entire day.
Right now I limit video games. Equal time playing for equal time reading books, only up to one hour per day.
If there is any big sassing or if they don't do their jobs, no video games for the day.
The first week has gone really well.
I don't nag, or remind. The rules are clear.
Hopefully this will continue through the summer.